Book Review: "I Liked My Life" by Abby Fabiaschi
There’s a certain allure to stories that delve into the human experience with raw honesty, and Abby Fabiaschi’s debut novel, I Liked My Life, does just that. As soon as I saw the title, I was drawn in, intrigued by the promise of exploring love, loss, and the process of healing in unexpected ways. This book doesn’t just tell a story; it invites you into the lives of its characters, encouraging profound reflection on your own relationships and responses to grief.
At the heart of the novel is Maddy, a devoted mother and wife, whose sudden suicide leaves her husband, Brady, and teenage daughter, Eve, reeling. What unfolds is a gripping journey of unearthing buried truths and grappling with the unanswered questions that linger after such a tragic loss. Fabiaschi does a remarkable job of weaving together the perspectives of Brady and Eve as they attempt to comprehend a mother and wife they believed they knew intimately. I was especially moved by the way the author encapsulates their feelings of guilt, confusion, and ultimately, their yearning for closure.
Maddy, though gone, becomes an ethereal presence, observing as her family seeks new footing. I found the concept of Maddy trying to find a suitable replacement in Rory—a free-spirited woman struggling with her own tragedies—particularly fascinating. It’s a poignant reminder that love and connection can persist even beyond our physical selves, a theme that adds a layer of complexity to shared grief.
Fabiaschi’s writing flows beautifully, often evoking laughter in the midst of sorrow. The pacing is just right; it allows for moments of levity that are genuinely surprising, amid the weight of the subject matter. Her prose is peppered with insightful reflections, each compelling enough to make me pause and consider my own life. One quote that lingered with me was, “We’re given the gift of life with the consequence of death. I think it’d be a mistake to focus on the consequence instead of the gift.” It’s a thought that resonates deeply in a world that often focuses more on loss than love.
The emotional depth and character development are truly exceptional for a debut novel. Each character feels authentic, relatable, and imbued with dimensions that allow readers to explore their own experiences with loss. Maddy’s voice, even from the beyond, adds a unique narrative twist that keeps you engaged and curious about how her influence weaves into the lives of Brady and Eve.
This book would resonate especially with readers who appreciate heartfelt, character-driven narratives. It’s perfect for those looking to reflect on their relationships through the lens of love and loss. With its balance of poignant moments and humor, I Liked My Life manages to be both heart-wrenching and uplifting. It left me contemplating my own life choices and the connections I hold dear.
In the end, reading I Liked My Life was not just an experience in storytelling; it was a reminder of the intricacies of love, the nuances of grief, and the importance of moving forward while cherishing the memories of those we’ve lost. I genuinely hope Abby Fabiaschi continues to share her talent with the world; her voice is one we need to hear. So, grab a box of tissues and prepare for a journey that may just change how you view the life you have—after all, life is both a gift and a beautiful mess worth embracing.
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